Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. Chores went undone, personal hobbies were uncultivated, friends ignored. PPD could be a factor, but exhaustion and stress can mess with your brain too. My dad and her split almost 14 years ago because of fights, and my dad apologizes and me mom won’t forgive him. Posts are moderated for respect, equanimity, grace, and relevance. Yes I do. Use words like "mmm" and "yummy" while eating your own plate. I love going away to work and coming home and spending like 3 hours max (like an old school dad). That instant love connection is definitely not there for everyone. Ensure that no matter how difficult they act, that they know that you are there for them, and encourage additional relationships with your family members, neighbourhood and community. Close friends? A mom is never, ever supposed to admit this, but here goes: I've never liked my child. She always fills up on milk and then doesn't want anything else. Yes, probably. However, there are many other activities that can develop compassion and giving directed to a younger age group. I will put into place some of the suggestions here. There are many lessons to learn in even the smallest moments. I can't do everything on my own anymore. I have been so depressed ever since she was born but she is the reason I am still here. It gets easier with every single year that passes. add your own caption. He obviously got it a lot because he has six children, but he always complains about it. A husband? These activities will foster self-confidence, responsibility and independence. Now she is a teenager and will still talk about the penny jar with fondness. You know what though? yet. By Carolyn Steber. Have you ever talked to anyone about this? Screaming won't work forever, so knock you shit off brats.". And good luck Hun! You should stop blaming yourself for your feelings because the more you do the more resent you involuntarily grow towards the fact of being a mother. adult conversation! I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hate my life because it is empty; I hate my life for not having friends; I hate my life because everyone underestimates me; I hate when someone gives me lessons, and I tell me what I have to do; I hate when I don’t know how to answer to the people who kill my self-confidence; I hate my life for not having money so that I can become independent I had some severe untreated post-partum depression. As a 32 yeah old childless man this is one of the most touching kind things I've read. I can understand that it's entirely overwhelming right now, and you have every right to feel the way you do. I'm sure other, smarter people will provide good advice here. The older she gets, the better I'll feel and the easier things will get and the more independent she will become. Not that she should be selfish but you give op the right advice. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. But many find a way to be at peace with it - I hope you find a therapist/med that works for you. The toddlers only say she's mean when not getting their, they already know their mom is afraid and doesn't want to be mean..she'll do anything to avoid it, which means giving into toddler demands. Hey so Im 13 years old. ‘Mom, I Hate My Life!’ is a compelling cry that can help undo the crisis by challenging and equipping moms to meet their daughters’ deepest needs in the best way possible. We just went to the doctors for the regular checkup, and asked his advice. etc. She feels like my best friend now. Edit: Two years later but here's an update! So, don't be so hard on yourself. This is all fantastic advice. We are a welcoming subreddit and support the rights of all genders. She is raging and screeching—she is completely in another orbit. Find some time to yourself, once a week (twice if possible) and do something that relaxes you, takes your mind off things and gives you a sense of relief. They might be curious enough to try a carrot. We said this isn't like her and normally she'd eat anything we eat, but now she won't. And when your daughter is older and more independent, maybe you can do some of those things you used to enjoy doing (or would prefer to be doing) together. I do everything for them and they hate me. Anyway, you sound like a great mom so I just wanted to tell you. Take care of your own needs. I wish I could go away. My wife and I have each gone through our own phases of yelling and cursing and begging and pleading with her to just eat one little bite. So my mom get mad and put me on punishment for a long time. After savory, follow up with sweet. Your daughter is 4, though, so she'll be in school soon if not already. Try one for a couple weeks, and you might see a vast improvement. My whole day I listen to screaming and yelling. I feel like a terrible mother and I feel like my daughter can just sense how I feel about her. Share on Facebook; Share on Twitter; Share on Google Plus; Share on Pinterest; I Hate My Mom; like; meh; 0; Current Page. I can't imagine why you don't want to eat this wonderful food. I can't talk to anyone about how I feel, wife is great and great with the kids but refuses to see anything from my point of view. I have had so many replies and PMs, from so many people who feel the same way. Don't overfeed during the day. I feel like this is such a taboo topic that not many people discuss so I always feel like I'm the only one feeling this way which again, just makes things worse. Have you considered you might be suffering from depression? Don't plead. Getting out of the house is as good for you as it is for them. Swap them out every month so they always have "new toys". I wish I had listened sooner about getting into counseling but that has really helped me so far!! Yes, parents are mean. It works. Visit one every week and borrow as many as you can carry. This. Your kids are naughty because you do not present a stable and authoritative image: also true. Don't praise if she takes a bite, don't offer her, don't put food on the fork. You are two years from things being much better too. I get what you're saying and I think the same thoughts. I push through every day for her and only her even though when I look at her, I don't feel what I want to feel. We don't have a connection. And I hate myself every day for it. Oh so much this. I Hate My Mom; like; meh; 0; HAS A "I HATE MY MOM" TATTOO IS ADOPTED. Who am I truly feeling these things toward, and why? God cares how you feel. I f***** hate my life and feel typing this up here will somewhat ease the pain. Give her the plate/bowl, and sit down with her and then ignore until she gets your attention. Try to learn to laugh. That's what libraries are for! Now it's no longer an ordeal to go out with her to friends or to the store. I care for a lot of people in my family that I "don't get along with"/ "wouldn't choose to be friends with". then they will come back to you after searching out their world for these four basic needs for you to fulfil them. Even if your activity feels like a waste of time, or that they are acting a fool and making you feel crazy, you must realize they are learning something. Hugs OP! Where is the father? It does get better as they grow up and become little people. I feel like she has an evil heart for not caring about him at all and she tells me that she hates him everyday. It's kind of like oxygen masks on an airplane. . This is because you are providing a secure home base (mentally, physically and emotionally) for them to explore from. My whole day I listen to screaming and yelling. A lot of libraries have a child's section with kid computers, as well as videos and occasionally story time. Our daughter comes home, goes straight to her room, turns on her CD player and wont talk to anyone especially me. If they reject it, they will seek it on their own. They are well provided for. If I take them out to buy groceries or go the playground they scream and run away and disobey me. We deal with this regularly with our kids and I understand where you are coming from. (When I was a single parent I'd look forward to going out to work because it was awesome... hot coffee! I wish I never brought her into this horrible world so she never had to experience pain and disappointment like I am. Lots of love. Great advice, I really hope she takes it. Get help. Around, everyday. I do want to add something that worked really, really well with us when my daughter was little. We have a great bond. It can get better and you can feel that connection! Your loss!" popular meme categories. This. Kids don't need new clothes. She's happy and developing and all the other things she needs to do at her age. Get used to it. It's imperative to take this time to yourself. I typically do 30 minutes max from sit down to release unless she's still putting food in her mouth. Do you have anybody who can help take care of the kids? If they misbehave in public, go home. And what I wish I felt... And I think she feels it. Try to identify what it could be, and make an effort to cultivate that thing. I'd rather wonder than live the reality. These are the four pillars a kid needs to have in order for life to be pleasant. I life is not good my mom beat me in get mad so much. We'll listen, and if you want, we'll talk. I am feeling much calmer now I have a "plan of attack". There is no magic when you give birth and I think that you waiting for that mysterious bond has deprived you of actually enjoying your daughter for what she is. In the journey of life, there comes a time when everything seems to go against you, relationships end, sudden illness kicks in, friends move away, and … I loved her but never quite had that "motherly" feeling. I tried to end my life more than once. I wake up every morning absolutely dreading the day ahead. Going to therapy and getting help was transformative for me and my relationship with my daughter. Literally no more than a handful. Answers from doctors on mom I hate my life. We've stopped trying to fit our lives around her, and fit her into our lives. Yes, DO go on those field trips. Wait until she's eaten a bit and then offer the drink. I had really bad post partum depression and I didn't get better until I sought professional help. Although I'm not a mom per say, I am a "mother" more or less. Grandparents? They will eat dirt and worms from the garden but not healthy food that I cook. What about fear or shame? She doesn't listen even when I am stern and consistent with rules and consequences. I'm all she has and she's all I have as I've been a single mom since day one. I hate my family and I hate my mom for what she has done in the past. You need to see a doctor about this, tell them how you're feeling, and get the help you need. And possibly therapy. He knows you and loves you, and He has a plan for your life. If they have a favourite, keep that one out though (to keep the peace). That was my favorite thing as a young one. Hey friend. Pennies could be used to buy extra stories at bedtime or trips to the park or really anything that she liked. A lot of people hate their parents, and sometimes for good reason. Give them some pieces of pasta, a few veggies, and some beans. Sometimes when we do suff wrong she get mad. I cook and they spit the food out, refuse to eat it then have a meltdown later because they are hungry. It's a coping mechanism and it's very, very common. 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